Sunday, June 7, 2009

Baby Shower

We had a baby shower for a lady in our church yesterday. I was in charge of the games.

One of them was a game I had played before where everyone puts a paper plate on their head and draws a picture of a baby on it. This was pretty funny to watch. The mother-to-be was the judge of who drew the best baby.


For the second game, I passed around a roll of yarn and had everyone cut off a piece that they thought matched the girth of the mother-to-be. Meanwhile, I measured her girth with a different color of yarn. I also had everyone write their name on a label and wrap it around the top of their yarn, since there were 25+ people playing. Then I held all the yarn up and had someone pick the piece that was closest in length to the mother's girth, and that person was the winner.

The last game was Baby-o. I mentioned this in a previous blog. Here is what one of the cards looked like.
I think everyone had a good time. I look at showers differently since my three wedding showers. It is such a blessing to have everyone come just to honor you and shower you with gifts. Since then, I have a new enthusiasm for giving or attending them.

Friday, June 5, 2009

In God We Trust

MSNBC is conducting a poll on whether "In God We Trust" should be removed from U.S. currency.

I don't even need to comment on how I feel about this, though I will say that I am somewhat encouraged that, at the time I am writing this, 88% have voted "No." I am discouraged that 12% have voted "Yes."

I would encourage you to vote in this poll if you haven't already, by clicking here.

A Defiled Nation

I’ve been working my way through the book of Leviticus. While it’s not exactly a favorite of too many Bible-readers, it does reveal to us how far we stray from God’s holy standard, how much in need we are of Jesus as our Savior.

I found an interesting tidbit today, in light of the homosexual marriage debate that’s going on in our country:

"'Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable. . . "'Do not defile yourselves in any of these ways, because this is how the nations that I am going to drive out before you became defiled. Even the land was defiled; so I punished it for its sin, and the land vomited out its inhabitants. But you must keep my decrees and my laws. The native-born and the aliens living among you must not do any of these detestable things, for all these things were done by the people who lived in the land before you, and the land became defiled. And if you defile the land, it will vomit you out as it vomited out the nations that were before you. Leviticus 18:22, 24-28

There are those who would argue that homosexual marriage doesn’t affect those of us who don’t participate in it. But it seems from this passage that God has other ideas. Such activity defiles the land, and if we defile the land, it will vomit us out.

God is slow to anger, but I believe if we continue in this lifestyle, His wrath is coming. I would urge you, my fellow Christians, to do whatever you can to help defeat these amendments that are passing that allow gay marriage in individual states. God isn’t kidding.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

This is Wrong!

On February 25, 1975, something happened in my neighborhood that changed Nashville, and me, forever. A nine-year-old girl was taken from near her home, raped, murdered and her body hidden in a neighbor’s garage.

For over a month, Nashville searched for her. Every day, even as an eight-year-old child, I eagerly read the newspapers to see if there was any news as to her whereabouts.

I remember that Easter Sunday after she disappeared, coming home from church and seeing a commotion just down the street from my home. My dad drove toward it, and my mom rolled down the window and asked a man standing there what had happened. "They found the little Trimble girl," he said. When my mom asked him if she was alive, he shook his head grimly.

I didn’t realize at the time how much this affected me. If something like that could happen to a little girl near my own age, in my own neighborhood, what was to keep it from happening to me? I was afraid to play outside, go get the mail or even go upstairs alone to my bedroom at night. My parents, of course, lived with this fear too. I lost the innocence of believing that I would always be safe and protected. To this day, I am a very fearful person.

I wasn’t the only one affected by all this. There were other children and parents who lived right on her street, who knew her well, who played with her after school and even on the day it happened. Their lives would never be the same. Teenage boys in the area became suspects, particularly one named Jeffrey Womack, who I knew personally. He remained their #1 suspect for over thirty years. One can imagine how this affected his life, his ability to relate to others or find a job, when he was constantly being tied to this well-publicized case. The biggest problem was that his DNA did not match the DNA found on Marcia Trimble’s body. This fact was concealed for many years.

All this is nothing compared to what her family went through. Losing a daughter they loved and protected, not knowing what happened to her, and then finding out the worst. They would never again tell her good night, attend her high school graduation, her wedding, or hold the grandchildren they may have had. They endured the added trauma of being accused by some of being involved in the crime. Her father turned to alcohol for comfort. Her parents later divorced, and her father died shortly afterward. Marcia had a brother who was, no doubt, also deeply wounded by it all.

And let’s not forget Marcia herself, the pain and fear she must have endured in the last moments of her life, and then having all her hopes and dreams for life stolen from her before she even reached her teenage years. Because of what someone did to her. For sport, apparently.

I may sound angry. I am. This was a case that affected me deeply, and yesterday it all came up again when I saw this article.

In 2007 Jerome Barrett was arrested for the rape and murder of a college student in the area just prior to Marcia’s disappearance. When they took DNA samples from him for that case, they also compared them to the DNA found on Marcia’s body. After 32 long years, they had a match.

Now Barrett’s attorney thinks this evidence should be thrown out because there was some misleading language in the search warrant when they took his DNA. TOO BAD! If this man is truly innocent, that’s one thing, but if he indeed committed this heinous crime, he needs to be punished accordingly, regardless of any small mistakes investigators may have made.

When O.J. Simpson walked away from his murder trial a free man, I lost faith in the justice system of our country. It seems we have turned to ignoring the rights of victims and giving them all to the criminals. Rapists, murderers and others who have committed horrible crimes have gone free because of some small technicality. Meanwhile, the victims or their surviving families are left to helplessly wonder why there is no justice for them. What is wrong with this picture?

The judge hasn’t ruled yet in this case, but if he chooses to throw out this important piece of evidence against Barrett (now in prison for murdering the college student) on this technicality, I believe he will have a lot of Nashvillians to answer to.

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Nothing Much

I haven't blogged for a couple of days because there isn't much going on.

My band started a new season Monday night. We are practicing patriotic music for a Fourth of July concert. I'm playing piccolo on a couple of things, which is more challenging than flute. I really like patriotic music, though, so I'm enjoying it all.

My church is having a baby shower on Saturday for one of our members. I am in charge of games. I spent most of the day yesterday making bingo cards. They are all different and have potential gifts on them with pictures (diaper bag, bottles, etc.), so if she opens a particular gift, anyone who has that on their card can cover it. I didn't realize how long it was going to take me until I got myself into it.

Weight Watchers keeps cutting my hours. They e-mailed me yesterday and told me they didn't need me to work a group that I was scheduled to work on Saturday, which kind of made me mad. The number of people attending has been so low, they just don't need as many staff. I understand they're trying to keep their business afloat in a tough economy, and the staff cuts are across the board, but I need to work. I've been looking for something else but haven't had any luck yet. I may just need to lower my standards and wait tables or something.

So, that's about all that's new with me. I'll blog more when I have something new to say.

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Things that Last

"Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised." Proverbs 31:30

I am 42. A lot of my friends are around my age, and we are at that age when any youthful beauty we may have had is fading away. Sags and bags are appearing in odd places. Gray hair is emerging from our heads. Yesterday I noticed some little purple veins in my legs that I hadn’t seen before.

When I was younger, I often looked with envy at the pretty girls. I have always been sort of a "Plain Jane." But now their beauty is fading away, and I see that those whose beauty was no deeper than their skin really have nothing left.

There were others who had a lot of money that I sometimes looked upon with awe. I thought they must be better than me in some way. But, as my pastor said recently, "if money is your god, you’re in trouble, because he’s going away, and I don’t think he’s coming back anytime soon." Many people who have had great wealth in the past are losing it now. Wow. They’re just like the rest of us.

What have I put my "stock" in? More and more I am realizing that if I put my hope in anything but God, it can and will be taken away from me at some point. He is the only thing I can hold on to that will never go away.

In these uncertain times, I urge you too to examine your heart and see what you are trying to hold on to. We don’t know what tomorrow holds or if any earthly thing will still be here, but we do know that God will always be. No matter what happens in this earthly life, those of us who know God can have confidence that we will spend eternity with Him.

"But whatever was to my profit I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord." Philippians 3:7-8a

Saturday, May 30, 2009

It's Hip to be Cheap

I live on a corner. We have a telephone pole in our front yard. People consider it to be public property and feel free to post their signs on it. Granted, it's not my pole, but it is my yard. I don't mind them putting their signs there as long as they take them down when they are outdated. But that's a "gripe" for another day.Today's blog is about the garage sales (or "yard sales") those signs advertise. This time of year, new garage sale signs appear on the telephone pole every weekend. More than ever before I have noticed cars stopping and reading the signs, then turning around if necessary to head in the direction they point. Shamelessly.

Another thing I have noticed is that Goodwill has become the "cool" place to shop. If people shopped at Goodwill in years past, they didn't talk about it. But now I see blogs, comments on Facebook and hear conversations in which people are bragging about the bargains they got there.

No one is ashamed to be "cheap" anymore. Which is a good thing, I think. Rather than a competition to see who could spend the most money, the competition now seems to be who can get the most for the least money.

The thing about garage sales and Goodwill is, they can't last forever. If the economy continues in its current trend and people continue to buy used merchandise, it will eventually wear out, and there will be no more used merchandise.

Just a thought to ponder.